Do I Still Need A Doula If I Have A Midwife?

Postivie pregnancy test..check. Secured an amazing midwife…check. Hire an amazing doula? Ch..wait…now why do I need one if I already have a midwife? This is a common question and we answer it today in our blog!

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Breastmilk Storage and Handling Guidelines

If you thought learning how to use your breastpump was the only issue you would face as a pumping parent, surprise! You’ve probably realized that there are just as many questions when it comes to storing and handling expressed breastmilk. But never fear! Today’s blog will tackle those questions. Read on to learn best practices and some handy tips surrounding pumped breastmilk.

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Supporting Loss

October is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month. Unfortunately, there seems to be a stigma and maybe a shroud of secrecy surrounding loss. Everyone deserves support but it seems as though no one knows how to support others through their loss. This is unfortunate as 1 in 4 people experience this kind of loss at least once in their life time. We’ve gathered some ways to show support.

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Older Sibling Tips

Baby number two is on the way! This time you don’t have those same new parent jitters. No, this time around the anxiety creeps in when you begin to think about how you are going to parent TWO children?! How are you going to survive the newborn phase with an older child already at home? How could you possibly love another human being as much as you love your firstborn? (Spoiler Alert - you will!) And how in the world is your first baby going to react to the new baby??? Check out today’s blog for our best tips to help you prepare your older child to take on the role of big sibling.

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Exclusive Pumping Tips

Whether you’ve found yourself in the role of an exclusive pumper by choice or by circumstance, here you are. You want to provide breastmilk to your baby, but you will not be bringing your baby directly to your body to get that milk. Instead you will be using a breast pump to express breast milk, as well as build and maintain a milk supply. No matter what the journey to get here, today’s blog has our best tips for the exclusively pumping parent.

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Favorite Local Coffee Shops

If you know Doulas of Raleigh Co-Owners, Kelly and Heather, then you know know how much we love coffee. We jokingly (kinda) refer to coffee as our love language. Rest assured, any time we get together to discuss business, coffee is going to be involved. This means we have become experts on knowing where to find the caffeinated good good here in the Triangle. Take a look at what we think are some of the best coffee shops in the area.

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Fun Fall Activities

At last, the temperature is dropping. The night air has a chill to it and some leaves are starting to change color. The pumpkin patches are open, the jeans and boots are at the ready, and the PSLs are in hand! That’s right, it’s Fall! There’s no shortage of fun fall activities to do with your family. Take a look at some of the ideas below and see if you can incorporate a few of them over the next couple of months.

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Postpartum Physical Recovery - The First Two Weeks

Hang on to your oversized, mesh undies because this blog is going to get real when it comes to everything you need to know about your postpartum physical recovery. Babies are cute but childbirth is messy and that is true for the immediate postpartum period too. You’re leaking from just about every imaginable place on your body, you’re hurting in places you didn’t know you could hurt, and your hormones are taking you on a wild ride you didn’t sign up for. This is the truth about those first two weeks after having a baby.

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Meal Prep Made Easy

There comes a point in adulthood when you realize that you are now responsible for feeding yourself every night for the rest of your life, and takeout gets expensive, so what this really means is you have to figure out what to eat and then cook it too. Ugh. Who allowed this to happen? If you’re pregnant or a parent, you’re probably also realizing that you have to feed these little people you created as well. Whhhyyyy??? Okay, I’ll stop being so dramatic and instead let you know that Doulas of Raleigh now offers Meal Prep Services. Hooray!!!

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How to Prepare for Labor Day

Labor Day weekend is here and some folks have been preparing to travel to squeeze in one last beach or lake trip, preparing to host a cookout for family and friends, or just preparing to have a nice long weekend at home. We thought Labor Day weekend was a great time to talk about preparing for your very own Labor and Birthing Day!

There are 4 main things to consider when preparing for labor and birth: think about the birth experience you’d like to have, choosing a care provider, educating yourself, and hiring a doula!

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Ways to Augment Labor

In many cases labor progresses just fine on its own but sometimes there is a reason to augment, or enhance, labor. Augmentation of labor is different than induction of labor. Augmentation would happen after spontatneous labor is already underway. Take a look at this post to read about different ways to enhance labor.

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Preparing for Postpartum - What You REALLY Need to Know

When we think about what we need to prepare for life with a new baby, often times we focus on things. The stuff we should add to a our baby registry. Strollers, baby monitors, diaper bags - those kinds of things. But the truth is you and your baby will probably be fine without a lot of stuff in the early days (other than diapers, food, some clothes, and a safe place to sleep). So what do you really need to feel prepared for postpartum? Pro tip - it’s not stuff. If I could share just a few things that actually help new parents feel better prepared for their postpartum journey, it would be the following….

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Top Three Tips for Establishing Breastfeeding

It’s World Breastfeeding Week, so we’re talking about lactation on this week’s blog. There’s so much to say about breast and chest feeding. Where to begin? As a seasoned Postpartum & Infant Care Doula and Infant Feeding Educator/Specialist, if I could only impart to you THREE things that would help you meet your breastfeeding goals they would be….

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The Witching Hour - What You Need to Know

The Witching Hour. The Period of Purple Crying. A Total Living Nightmare. Okay, we made that last one up, but there are several names for the time of day (usually the evening) when newborns seem to just totally lose it and cry and cry and cry. And no matter what you call it, boy is that time rough! So what exactly is the Witching Hour? Today’s blog breaks it down and offers some helpful tips to survive this not-so-fun time.

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Water Fun for Babies and Toddlers

It’s 90 degrees and sunny yet again. It’s too hot to do anything but stay inside in the A/C or get into a pool, lake, or ocean. Sounds easy, right? Maybe pre-kids when you just had to get yourself ready and out the door. Now, the thought of packing up everything you need for a baby or todder for a day at the pool seems a little overwhelming. Good news! There’s plenty of ways to get your baby playing in water without ever leaving your house. Check out some of our ideas!

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Infant Feeding Support with Doulas of Raleigh

One of the biggest choices ALL new parents will make is how to feed their new baby. Will the baby be breastfed? Formula fed? Maybe a combination of both? Maybe the new parent plans to exclusively pump and bottle fed? This is not always an easy choice. And once that choice has been made, there is still a mountain of questions surrounding how to make it work. That’s why Doulas of Raleigh offers Infant Feeding Support. Learn more about this service in today’s blog.

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